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Plays well with others : the surprising science behind why everything you know about relationships is (mostly) wrong / Eric Barker.

Barker, Eric, (author.).

Summary:

"From the author of the Wall Street Journal bestseller Barking Up the Wrong Tree comes a cure-all for our increasing emotional distance and loneliness--a smart, surprising, and thoroughly entertaining guide to help build better friendships, reignite love, and get closer to others, whether you're an extrovert or introvert, socially adept or socially anxious. Can you judge a book by its cover? Is a friend in need truly a friend indeed? Does love conquer all? Is no man an island? In Plays Well with Others, Eric Barker dives into these age-old maxims drawing on science to reveal the truth beyond the conventional wisdom about human relationships. Combining his compelling storytelling and humor, Barker explains what hostage negotiation techniques and marital arguments have in common, how an expert con-man lied his way into a twenty-year professional soccer career, and why those holding views diametrically opposed to our own actually have the potential to become our closest, most trusted friends. Inside you will learn: The two things essential to making friends - and what Dale Carnegie got wrong. What creates love, reignites love, and sustains love. (There's no Build-A-Bear store for a happy marriage but this is close.) The ethical and effective way to get your partner to change. How social media can actually improve relationships. The antidote to loneliness and why what we usually hear doesn't work. And so much more. The book is packed with high-five-worthy stories about the greatest female detective to ever live, the most successful liar to ever open his mouth, genius horses, thieving hermits, the perils of perfect memories, and placebos. Leveraging the best evidence available--free of platitudes or magical thinking--Barker analyzes multiple sides of an issue before rendering his verdict. What he's uncovered is surprising, counterintuitive, and timely--and will change the way you interact in the world and with those around you just when you need it most."--Publisher's website.

Record details

  • ISBN: 9780063050945
  • ISBN: 0063050943
  • Physical Description: x, 293 pages ; 24 cm
  • Edition: First edition.
  • Publisher: New York, NY : HarperOne : an imprint of HarperCollins Publishers, [2022]

Content descriptions

Bibliography, etc. Note:
Includes bibliographical references (pages 245-291).
Formatted Contents Note:
Introduction -- Part 1: Can you "judge a book by its cover"? -- Part 2: Is "a friend in need a friend indeed"? -- Part 3: Does "love conquer all"? -- Part 4: Is "no man an island"? -- Something vaguely resembling a conclusion -- Resources -- Before we say goodbye.
Subject: Interpersonal relations.
Interpersonal communication.
Loneliness.
Love.
Friendship.
Genre: Informational works.
Self-help publications.

Available copies

  • 5 of 6 copies available at Missouri Evergreen. (Show)
  • 1 of 1 copy available at Carthage Public.

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  • 0 current holds with 6 total copies.
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Carthage Public Library 158.2 B24p (Text) 34MO2001812849 Adult Nonfiction Available -

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Plays Well with Others : The Surprising Science Behind Why Everything You Know about Relationships Is (Mostly) Wrong
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Barker, whose blog and first book are both titled Barking Up the Wrong Tree, tests truisms about relationships, romantic and otherwise, in this well-researched investigation. The author subjects to scientific scrutiny four common maxims on relationships: "don't judge a book by its cover," "love conquers all," "a friend in need is a friend indeed," and "no man is an island." Exploring case studies that include a horse who could answer simple math questions using people reading skills, and a woman with near-perfect memory, Barker unravels how perceptions affect human judgment and concludes that people are "bad at reading others." On love, the author finds that it may not conquer all, but some strategies can make overcoming more likely, such as trying new things as a couple and encouraging "positive growth and improvement." Barker's wide-eyed curiosity and intellectual openness ("This is a I had no idea what I was doing so I talked to a lot of people... to get some solid information book") make him an ideal tour guide. The result is a fascinating, myth-busting look at relationships. (May)

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Self-help blogger Barker follows up his best-seller Barking Up the Wrong Tree: The Surprising Science Behind Why Everything You Know About Success Is (Mostly) Wrong with this playful exploration of human relationships. The author begins by stressing the importance of first impressions and how people are perceived. In part two, Barker emphasizes the significance of friendships and how they differ in quality and change over time and as we age. Building on that, he emphasizes friendship in romantic relationships, which leads up to part three, which explores love and marriage. In this chapter, Barker provides predictors of happiness and success in relationships and solid advice. Finally, for those who are not interested in relating to others, part four explores the benefits and pitfalls of loneliness. Smart, yet funny, Barker frequently draws from scientifically backed studies, yet the tone is always humorous and conversational. His examples, drawn from famous and infamous individuals from all walks of life, will help readers solidify every concept he introduces. VERDICT Readers interested in sociology and interpersonal relationships will enjoy this humorous, science-based exploration of human relationships and what makes them last.--Jen Clifton


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